Reading List 2025
Non-Fiction
How to Thrive with Adult ADHD - Dr James Kustow - finally got through this one. A lot of really useful practical tips, organised around 7 pillars. Some of it feels big and overwhelming, but I can see how some of the changes would be useful when implemented bit by bit. I like that it doesn’t have a superpower narrative and seems fairly balanced in acknowledging the difficulties and strengths.
Nobody’s Normal: How Culture Created the Stigma of Mental Illness - Roy Richard Grinker - fascinating look at how stigma is culturally created and how mental illness has different meanings across cultures, written by an anthropologist.
Still Distracted After All These Years by Kathleen Nadeau - all about ADHD in older adults 60+ which is the only book I have seen on this age group. It’s written in an easy to read way with lots of subheadings and good action points and summaries
ADHD for Smart Ass Women, Tracy Otsuka - a little bit of superpower narrative in here which I really struggle with, but also some really great, realistic, practical strategies
The Autist’s Guide to the Galaxy - Clara Törnvall - a fun little book, very tongue in cheek, on navigating the world of ‘normal’ people, pointing out the oddities of the neurotypicals.
The Invisible Load by Libby Weaver - not sure how I felt about this one. It looked at various ways our invisible load (thoughts, beliefs etc) adds to our stress. Some useful things but did feel a bit blame-y at times.
Broken Brains by Jamila Rizvi and Rosie Waterland - almost finised this, really interested look at the lived experience of physical vs mental illness and the different levels of support. I don’t like the term ‘broken’ to refer to our brains, because they aren’t! But can overlook that for the useful content.
Who Deserves Your Love by KC Davis - still working my way through this but there have been some amazing truth bombs so far and I highly recommend reading this! I loved these quotes especially: “Everyone deserves love, no one is entitled to yours” and “Understandable behaviour is not the same as acceptable behaviour.”
I Didn’t Do The Thing Today by Madeleine Dore - a wonderful, realistic book about changing expectations, breaking things down, slowing down and giving yourself permission to do less.
Running on Empty by Jonice Webb - an interesting look at emotional neglect with lots of examples. I listened to this over a few months and would like to go back again.
Small Talk: 10 ADHD Lies and How To Stop Believing Them by Roxanne and Richard Pink (ADHD Love) - a really useful look at ‘small’ talk (self talk that keeps us small) and 10 of the most common things ADHDers might be saying to themselves internally. Lots of lived experience examples and strategies for supporting changing that inner critical voice.
Fiction
The Wonderful Thing About Phoenix Rose - Josephine Moon - honestly I think this is the best fictional representation of Autism I have come across. The main character is a late diagnosed teacher who goes on an epic road trip through Australia to save some animals. Highly recommend.
The Smythe-Smith Quartet - Julia Quinn - light bedtime listening.
Gideon the Ninth and Harrow the Ninth, Tamsyn Muir - lesbian necromancers in space! Good fun reads.
Babel, R. F. Kuang - interesting look at power, privilege and colonisation with a fictional Oxford.
The Witch Collector, Charissa Weaks - easy read romantasy novel.
The Kindred’s Curse saga - Penn Cole - I sped through these 3 books so fast and wish I’d known before I’d started that the 4th one isn’t out yet!
Bridgerton Prequels collection - Julia Quinn -audiobooks for sleep.
Kingdom of Ash - Sarah J Maas - finally read the last book in this series after putting it off as I didn’t want the series to be finished!
Witch Walker series books 2 and 3 - Charissa Weaks - the writing in these two seemed quite different to the first one and it took me a bit to adjust. I had also read some other books inbetween which won’t have helped with continuity.
A Court of Thorns and Roses series by Sarah J. Maas - was disappointed to get to the end of book 5 and realise that there will be some more coming out. In saying that the is great romantasy, felt easy to read and good escapism.
The Crescent City trilogy by Sarah J. Maas - read through these very quickly, trying to finish them before I left for Australia!
The Collected Adventures of Bannon and Clare by Lilith Saintcrow - I read the first two in this collection last year and finally finished the other two. Really interesting world, would describe the stories as steampunk Sherlock Holmes with magic.
Red Queen series by Victoria Aveyard - I’m currently on the 4th book and really enjoying the series, interesting look at power and who holds it based on perceived superiority
Realm Breaker series by Victoria Aveyard - read this after finishing her other series and am enjoying this one too
The Mirror Visitor quartet by Christelle Dabos - a translation of a French series set in a version of earth where the globe has fractured in to arks and the descendants of family spirits have specific powers. Fascintating premise and enjoyable read.
I did a lot of comfort reading as part of my surgery recovery, returning to an old favourite Tamora Pierce and re-reading The Circle of Magic series, The Circle Opens series and the Circle Reforged books
Bedtime listening - Julia Quinn, Jane Ashford, Cassandra Clare, M.C. Beaton, Winston Graham